But the one who
hates his brother is in the darkness and walks in the darkness, and does not
know where he is going because the darkness has blinded his eyes.
(1 John 2:11 NIV)
John keeps bringing
out the contrasts between those who love and those who hate. He chooses as many
ways as possible to remind us of the extremes, while staying close to his
principal imagery of the Light of Christ.
For those who let
hatred into their hearts, particularly hatred for those they ought to, by all
standards, be loving, he says they walk in darkness. But it is a state that is
more than simply being in darkness, it is compounded by blindness.
Earlier, he had
talked about walking in darkness, saying that those who do not know Christ move
in such conditions. Those who do not believe in the Lord, those who have not
heard and learned the Gospel, they walk in darkness. But, they can stop walking
in darkness when they come to know the Lord. They will see the Light.
But here, he speaks
of those who ought to know better. Here, he is talking about those who have
been taught about Jesus, who might otherwise be trying to follow the Lord’s
teachings, but who have this one “little” problem: they hate a brother.
To have heard the
word of the Lord, to know the teachings of Christ, and yet to harbor a hatred
against one we should love, that to John is worse than the state of the
non-believer. For we have been in the Light, we have known the Light, but our
hatred does more than just drive us back out into the darkness, it blinds us,
so that we cannot even see.
When we “merely”
have not heard and accepted the Word, we are in darkness. But we can still see.
There is still the possibility that we will see the flash of Christ’s Light
cutting through our life. There is still the possibility that we will step into
the Light, and learn of God’s Love.
But when we hate
where we should love, we do something worse than walk out of the Light of the
Lord. We do something worse than walk into the outer darkness. When we hate, we
blind ourselves and step into the darkness.
Not only do we
venture out into the territory of the lost, where those who do not know of
Christ wander, we venture out among them blindly.
Imagine what that
would be like.
Someone who has
known the Light and lived in it has let hatred of a sibling in Christ enter
their heart. This person has walked out of the Light and into the darkness
where people who do not know Christ wander. But our former friend not only
cannot see these wanderers, he cannot see the Light in the distance any longer,
because he is also blind. A wanderer might see the Light in the distance and
start moving toward it, but the one who is blinded by hate does not have that
possibility.
I was once at a
retreat for college students, and there was to be an evening campfire. I
happened to leave the cabin I was in without my flashlight, and unfortunately
there was no pathway through the trees to the campfire. From the walkway to the
fire, we would have to cross uneven ground, where stones and roots lay waiting
to trip us up. But ahead of me, I could see the light of the campfire. So I
kept my eyes on that, and tread evenly and carefully, and made it across the
whole distance without stumbling and falling.
That real, physical
experience taught me much about what it is like to see the Light of Christ in
the distance. If the non-believer who truly seeks Light sees it, even from a
far distance, Christ will bring them closer, in spite of stumbling stones and
tripping roots. All they need do is keep their eyes on the Light.
But when hatred
enters our hearts, the effect becomes both internal and external. Not only do
we lose our sight, we bring the external darkness with us.
Is this really what
we want in our lives?
What can cause us to
hate our brother? This is someone we should be loving. Someone who shares love
with us and others, someone who has learned to love Christ, learned to live in
the Light of the Lord. What could possibly create hatred of such a person?
Well, the truth is
that even at the best of times, we all are broken creatures. We are all
imperfect. We all still have much to learn about following Christ.
Being imperfect, we
can easily fall into envy of a sibling in Christ. Suppose we see a fellow
believer who has had some worldly success in their profession. It is easy to
envy that success and the seeming benefits that come with it. If we let that
envy fester, we can grow from liking the person but resenting the success into
hating the person for having what we lack. We have ceased to love the brother
because we look at the worldly things they “got” and we forget that what the
Lord gives each of us is special to us, and sufficient.
That is one way we
can come to hate a brother.
Another is when
misunderstandings grow up between fellow believers. Our desire to always be
right can deafen us to what the other person has to say. Our desire to be right
can cause us to dismiss any overture toward restoring balance and
understanding. By refusing to even listen, we harden our hearts, creating a
shell that keeps others out – not just the person we disagree with, but others
as well. Once we shut someone out, we behave as if they are an enemy, someone
to be defended against, no matter what they do or say. And feeling follows
behavior. When we start to behave as if we hate someone, we do in fact come to
hate that person.
When hatred enters
the heart, by whatever means, it brings darkness and blindness to those who had
been in the Light.
The one who hates
his brother does not know where he is going. The one who hates his brother has
lost the capacity to even see the Light in the distance. The one who hates his
brother has brought darkness around him.
Isolation will inevitably
result from this, because for those who love the Lord, the Light is where they
want to be. They don’t want to be drawn back into darkness. Choosing Christ may
mean letting go of the one who harbors a hatred of a sibling in Christ.
Choosing Christ means to stay in the Light, to learn to love others no matter
what.
Who wants to be lost
in the darkness and blind to even the glimmer of the Light of the Lord?
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